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Tea set one-on-one introduction picture, make tea is a skill, reflecting the respect for the guests. 1IS tea net

Bubble tea pay attention to tea, equipment, people, art, unity, so that you can make a good cup of tea, at the same time bring a good tea experience. 1IS tea network

Here to introduce you to some of the more common tea ceremony utensils illustrated. 1IS Tea Network

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No.1Types of main brewing apparatus

Some of the main tea brewing utensils, such as gaiwan, zisha pots, silver pots, etc. 1IS Tea Leaf

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Gai Bowl:

In the Tang Dynasty, the tea sage Lu Yu in the “Tea Scriptures”, the cover bowl has been described in this way: “The cover of the cover bowl is meant for the sky, the cover support is meant for the earth, and the cover body is meant for the people.” Therefore, it is also known as the Three Talents Cup, which symbolizes the philosophy of heavenly connotation, earthly load, and human nurturing. 1IS Tea Net

The use of gaiwan tea, can make the tea leaves deposited in the bottom, the water when the tea leaves roll, easy to bubble out of the tea juice. It also serves the purpose of “serving tea to honor the guest” in terms of etiquette. 1IS Tea Net

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Purple clay pot:

Purple clay pots are handmade clay crafts unique to China, which began during the Zhengde period of the Ming Dynasty. 1IS Tea Net

Purple clay pots are made of purple clay as raw material, because of the good air permeability of purple clay pots, so the tea can be very well locked in the tea aroma, without losing the original flavor. And purple sand pots have a high collection value, as the saying goes, “the earth’s jewelry is not enough to take, Yixing purple sand is the most important”. 1IS Tea Net

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Silver pots:

In recent years, silver pots have been continuously explored in China, and gradually accepted and loved by the public. 1IS Te a Net

Silver pot has a very good, softening water quality function. Moreover, the tea brewed in silver pots has high aroma, pure tea, smooth and moist, and excellent taste. 1IS Tea Net

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No.2 Fair Cup

The first fair cup appeared as a wine vessel in Yuan Dynasty and Liao Dynasty, after the change of history, nowadays the fair cup is also known as the tea sea, the cup, is one of the indispensable and necessary tea utensils at the tea table. 1IS Te a Leaf Website

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The use of the fairway cup, first, to ensure that the tea table table clean, especially in the use of the cover bowl, the fairway cup appears to be indispensable, 1IS Tea Net

Secondly, when using a teapot to make tea, the tea is easily poured into the cup in front of the tea is light, behind the tea is thick phenomenon. At this point, the fairway cup plays a very critical role. 1IS Tea Network

In the bubble tea, usually the tea pot in the tea first poured into the fairway cup, and then poured into the tasting cup to the guests to taste, to ensure that everyone in the cup of tea soup taste the same. 1IS Tea Network

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No.3 Tea Cup / Master Cup

Tea cups are special cups used for tasting tea and viewing tea soup. Most of the tea lovers will choose their own master cup. 1IS Tea

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The choice of tea cups is a delicate one. Choosing a cup that doesn’t match will ruin the enjoyment of tea tasting. When choosing a tea cup, it is best to choose a cup with a capacity of three small mouths and follow the four principles of “small, shallow, thin and white”. 1IS Te a Net

As the saying goes, “Tea is full of deception, wine is full of respect”, when pouring tea, the tea in the tasting cup should be poured into 2/3 of the appropriate. 1IS Tea Network

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No.4 Six Gentlemen of Tea Ceremony

The Six Gentlemen of the Tea Ceremony, as the name suggests, are six tea ceremony utensils. They are – tea leaves, tea needles, tea funnels, tea clips, tea spoons and tea canisters. 1IS Tea Net

The material is more bamboo and wood based, when shopping, look for the texture of the bamboo and wood. After use, dry or air dry, to avoid staining, harboring bacteria. When storing to the tea canisters, avoid getting wet. 1IS Tea

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Tea Cone (below): Used to hold the other five utensils of the “Six Gentlemen of the Tea Ceremony”, and can also be used to place other tea art supplies. 1IS Te a Leaf Network

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Tea is (below): also known as a tea spoon, used for tea canisters to measure tea leaves, placed in the tea load or teapot when used. It ensures that the right amount of tea is thrown in to avoid the taste being affected by too much or too little tea. 1IS Tea Leaf Website

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Tea Leak (below): A vessel placed over the mouth of the main steeper when placing tea. During the process of placing tea leaves, it prevents the tea leaves from falling outside the main steeper. 1IS Tea Leaf Website

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Teaspoon (below): also known as tea paddle, the teaspoon has two purposes, one is used to clean up the tea residue of the tea that has been brewed in the teapot; the second can be used to paddle the tea leaves into the teapot. 1IS Te a Leaf Network

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Tea Clip (below): also known as “tea chopsticks”. It can be used in two ways. On the one hand, it can be used to clip out the residual tea residue in the teapot; on the other hand, it can be used to clip the tea cups when cleaning the tea set, which not only prevents scalding but also makes the tea cups less likely to be contaminated with bacteria. 1IS Tea Net

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Tea Needle (below): As the name suggests, it is as tiny as a needle. It is generally used to loosen the tea residue inside the teapot to ensure smooth water flow and prevent the spout from being blocked by tea crumbs. In addition to this, metal tea pins can also be used as prying pressed tea (such as Puerh cake tea, white tea cake tea, etc.). 1IS Tea Network

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No.5 Other Tea Table Accessories

In addition to the above mentioned tea sets, there are quite a few tea accessories on the tea table. Such as: tea washer, cover, pot bearer, tea mat, etc. 1IS Tea Network

Tea lotus (below): mainly used to hold dry tea, for people to appreciate the color and shape of dry tea. The material is mostly made of bamboo, wood, pottery, porcelain, tin, etc. 1IS Tea Net

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Tea Wash (below): also known as water pot, like a large bowl, more with the use of dry brewing table. It can be used to contain water for cleaning tea utensils, as well as wastewater from the first tea broth, cold tea, etc. 1IS Te a Net

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Cover (below): As the name suggests, this is the lid that holds the main steeper. Placing the lid of the teapot on the lid holder not only keeps the lid clean, but also reduces wear and tear on the lid. It is a very practical tea object, though inconspicuous. 1IS Tea Network

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Pot bearing (below): As the saying goes, “a pot a bearing a tea matter”. Pot bearer is mainly used to support the use of the main bubbler, to avoid water wet desktop. Some of the existing pot bearers also have the role of tea washing and holding wastewater. 1IS Tea Net

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Tea towel (below): also known as “tea cloth” generally made of hemp, cotton and other fibers. It is mainly used to dry the water at the bottom of the teapot or cup, and can also be used to dry the dripping water on the desktop to ensure that the desktop is neat and tidy. 1IS Te a Net

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Table Flag (below): as a decoration it is often laid on the center line or diagonal of the table to make the tea table look more elegant. In addition to enhance the taste and style, can also protect the desktop, is in recent years began to rise a kind of tea table arrangement decoration. 1IS Te a Network

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Ancient sayings

Like most things, the earliest claims about white tea have their origins in myth and legend. ix5tea.com

According to the legend, the ancient name of Tai Mo Shan was Cai Shan, when Emperor Yao had an old mother living here to plant orchids as a business, and had used the green snow bud tea she planted as a holy medicine for measles, saving many children, people worshipped her as a god and called her Tai Mo, and the mountain was thus named Tai Mo Shan, later renamed as Tai Mo Shan. IX5Tea.com

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Nowadays, Fuding Taimushan still has old tea trees of green snow buds, which are rumored to be the original mother tree of Fuding Great White Tea planted by Tai Mo Maiden herself. IX5Tea.com

Hunan Agricultural College, Mr. Yang Wenhui in the publication of the “on the origin of white tea debatable period” in an article proposed that the emergence of white tea earlier than green tea. The reason is: Chinese ancestors initially discovered the medicinal value of tea, in order to save the spare, must be fresh tea buds and leaves sun-dried or roasted, which is the birth of white tea in the history of Chinese tea. ix5tea.net

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Tang Dynasty

The name of white tea first appeared in the Tang Dynasty in Lu Yu’s “Tea Classic” seven things, recorded: “Yongjia County, three hundred miles east of the white tea mountain.” IX5Tea.com

Prof. Chen Citron pointed out in the “General History of Tea”: “Yongjia east three hundred miles is the sea, is the error of the south three hundred miles. South three hundred miles is fujian fuding (tang for changxi county jurisdiction), is the white tea origin. ix5tea.com

“Visible in the Tang Dynasty, Changxi County (Fuding, Fujian Province) has cultivated “white tea” varieties. Because it only has a name, whether it can be used as evidence of the origin is still subject to further debate. ix5tea.net

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Song Dynasty

Song Huizong (Zhao Ji) in the “Daguan tea theory” section dedicated to white tea, said: “White tea, since a kind of, and often different tea. Its strips of perfumed elaboration, its leaves Ying thin, between the forest and cliffs, accidentally born, although not manpower can be achieved. The royal tea garden in the Song Dynasty, located in Fujian Jian’an County Beiyuan (i.e., today’s Fujian Province, Jian’ou County). ix5tea.net

The white tea in the “Daguan tea theory”, is the early production in the Beiyuan imperial baking tea mountain wild white tea. The production method is still steamed and pressed into a tea ball, with today’s white tea production method is not the same. ix5tea.net

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Ming Dynasty

The Ming Dynasty Tian Yiheng “cooking spring sketches” in the cloud: “Tea, fire author for the second, sunburned for the top, but also close to the natural, and cut off the smoke and fire gas ear”. “Raw sunshine” is now the production of white tea production method. White tea is the real “not close to the fire”. ix5tea.com

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Qing Dynasty

White tea production, is in the early years of the Qing Jiaqing (1769) picking bud tea made of silver needle. 1885 changed to pick Fuding big white tea made of white hair silver needle. In 1880, Zhenghe County discovered large white tea, and started making silver needles in 1889, before making white peony in 1922. ix5tea.com

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Modern times

Until the 1950s, white tea was always produced or purchased from tea farmers to ensure the needs of Fujian Province’s foreign trade exports. Due to the site and climate, the production of white tea was very low, so the tea farmers had a common saying “hard work does not solve the weather changes”. ix5tea.com

In 1963, Fuding Tea Factory Bailin Tea Factory utilized the hot air withering tank technology to produce white tea, which was successful, and the production only began to improve. In addition, from a historical point of view, white tea is exclusively an export tea, and there is a saying that “flowers bloom inside the wall and fragrance outside the wall”. IX5Tea.com

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And the early white tea production was small, mainly for export, so the domestic visibility is low, until the beginning of this century, a small amount of white tea in the country, followed by the gradual emergence of. ix5tea.net

Many people do not recognize white tea for what kind of tea. It is only in the last decade or so that it started to gain fame, and it is conceivable where so many old white teas on the market today come from. IX5Tea.com

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Ferry people, is a kind of bosom

As the saying goes: “If you leave a thread of life, you will see each other in the future”. In fact, people who can tolerate others in their lives can better tolerate life and themselves. The so-called ferry people, but is a kind of bosom in the face of life. F0B Tea Net

The unfairness of life, can be accepted with an attitude of tolerance; life’s unbearable, can also do to see through not to say break. And in daily life, can do a generous person, not for small things and catty, not for sesame and lost watermelon. F0B Tea Net

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Transitioning people is also a pattern. Only people with a big pattern can be tolerant and forgiving, and can be truly kind to others in the midst of life. In fact, everyone wants to live a stable and calm life, to others to leave a margin, but also to their own way back, so do not have to go through with themselves. Every experience of life is in the “ferry”, so what should come will always come, we can do is just accept and tolerate. F0B Tea Net

In the future, to be a person with a wide heart, with a kind heart to live well, with a tolerant attitude to accept life. f0b tea net

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Transitioning oneself is a kind of growth

There is such a saying: there is no such thing as a bare foot, no one is perfect. Every one of us, there are imperfections, and every one of us wants to live a perfect life. Because of this goal, we continue to work hard, progress, and in the pursuit of perfection in the process, to find their own happiness, and it is this process that makes life perfect. The life of a human being is nothing but a practice. F0B Tea Net

This practice is a process of crossing ourselves, we cross ourselves in the process, the pursuit of life’s perfection, but also began to accept their own imperfections. There are many, many problems in our lives, and only by facing ourselves and accepting our imperfections can we better deal with them. F0B Tea Net

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Acceptance of themselves, is to face up to their own shortcomings and deficiencies, but also a kind of tolerance for themselves, the so-called ferry people first ferry themselves, in the tolerance of life at the same time, but also please give themselves a little more tolerance.

Only those who can tolerate themselves can better tolerate others and tolerate every bit of life. People are not perfect, and life is a pursuit of perfect practice, but also in the pursuit of perfection in the process, we can experience the sweet and sour life. F0B Tea Net

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Transition heart, is a kind of sublimation

Zhang Xiaoxian once said: inner cultivation is a sublimation of the soul. To be a truly cultivated person, to enrich the heart, to enrich life, to precipitate in life, to pursue their own inner yearning. F0B Tea Net

Cultivation, is not to compete with others, not to worry about things, and the ferry heart, is a process to improve the cultivation. No matter what life is like, you can face it with an indifferent attitude, and you can treat everything around you with a grateful heart.

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Cultivation is a soul quality, some people have money and power, but the soul is lowly and humble; while some people live ordinary life, the heart is noble and noble. The real cultivation is a kind of fraternity, tenderly get along with everyone, friendly to deal with every thing. F0B Tea Net

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Ferry people first ferry themselves, ferry themselves first ferry heart, inclusive of their own, in order to better tolerate life; enrichment of the heart, in order to better do tolerance. From now on, be a person who does not mess up in everything in the heart, not trapped in love, not afraid of the future and do not miss the past. F0B Tea Leaf Net

There are many regions in China that produce Chenpi, why is it that only the Chenpi produced by Xinhui is so outstanding? It has been respected by many famous doctors throughout the ages, and has been regarded as a Taoist medicinal herb. Today, let’s talk about the story of Xinhui Chenpi. g3M Tea Net

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For Chenpi, the Chinese Pharmacopoeia is described as: “Rutaceae plant orange (Citrus reticulata Blanco) and its cultivated varieties of dry mature fruit peel. Pick the mature fruit, peel the rind, and dry in the sun or at low temperature.” g3M Tea

Chenpi can be categorized into common Chenpi and Guang Chenpi, among which Xinhui is the most popular local therapeutic herb. Chenpi has a long history of development, but at the beginning of the production area of Chenpi is not clearly delineated, after several changes, finally established in Xinhui, Guangdong. g3M Tea Net

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In the beginning, orange first appeared in the lower reaches of the Yangtze River in the Jianghuai area. By the Han Dynasty, the cultivation of tangerines began to be recorded along the middle reaches of the Yangtze River. In “Shennong Ben Cao Jing”, it is said that “it is born in the southern mountains and valleys.” The “South Mountain and River Valley” here refers to the present Qinling area, which belongs to the middle reaches of the Yangtze River. g3M Tea Net

Until the North and South Dynasties medicine Tao Hongjing began to pay attention to the concoction and classification of medicinal herbs, and proposed to pay attention to the Chenpi medicinal herbs to distinguish between the production areas. g3M Tea Leaf Net

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▲Tao Hongjing g3M Tea Leaf Net

He also wrote in the “Materia Medica Classic Annotated” that “East orange is good, Xijiang also have but not as good. The skin is small and cold, healing gas, is said to win the orange. North people also use it, and to the Chen for good.” “East orange” should be the Yangtze River Delta region of Jiangsu and Zhejiang, while the West River should be the present Jiangxi region. g3M Tea Network

In the Song Dynasty, Jiangsu and Zhejiang areas became the production area of orange peel. In the Ming Dynasty, the orange peel production area was moved south to Guangdong, until now it is still widely produced for the road. g3M Tea Net

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This is recorded in Li Shizhen’s “Compendium of Materia Medica”: Today, the following more than Guangzhong (i.e., Xinhui) to come to the winner, followed by Jiangxi. Ancient Chinese pharmacological works “Herbal Harm” also has relevant records: Guangdong Xinhui skin for the victory, Chen long good, so the name Chen Pi. Fujian producers named Jianpi, force thin. Zhejiang Quzhou out of the name of Qu Pi, more second. g3M Tea Net

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Due to the obvious quality characteristics of Chaji Citrus (Dahong Citrus), Xinhui Chenpi, which is made from its rind, is also of unique quality. Specific varieties of genes become the foundation of the quality of Xinhui Chenpi. g3M Tea Leaf Net

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Thanks to the excellent variety of Xinhui Citrus, the content of “volatile oil” and “flavonoids” is higher than that of common Brassicaceae varieties in Xinhui Pericarp (as shown below). (The following picture) g3M Tea Net

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▲Nanjing Pharmaceutical College, “Chinese Herbal Medicine” g3M Tea Net

It can be seen that the volatile oil content of Xinhui “Cha Zhi Kuan” peel is the highest among the sampled peels. g3M Te a Net

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▲Figure from: “Comparative study of 4 kinds of flavonoids in Chenpi and Qingpi”, Nanjing University of Traditional Chinese Medicine, Qiu Rongli et al. It can be seen that the contents of Guangdong Chenpi are higher than those of other regions, and some of the substances are even more than those of other regions by 10 times. g3M Tea Leaf Net

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Environment and characteristics of Xinhui Chenpi

1、Unique soil and water

Unique “three water integration” water and soil characteristics: the territory of the Xijiang River and the Tanjiang River convergence, coupled with the annual South China Sea tidal inverted, in the Xijiang River floods and the Tanjiang River tide and the South China Sea water under the joint action of the formation of the unique “three water integration” water and soil characteristics. g3M Tea Leaf Net

December each year to the next year before the flood season in March and April, Xijiang, Tanjiang runoff reduction, the South China Sea tidal inversion, the formation of an annual salty tide, the salt content of 3-9 ‰, soil and water composition infiltrated a large number of seawater elements, salty and light blend. This determines the soil of Xinhui has both a variety of soil composition types, rich water, sedimentary organic matter and seawater salts to achieve the quality of the source of the geological material. g3M Tea Net

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2、Climate is unique

Xinhui is located in the south subtropical monsoon climate zone, with abundant light and hot water, which is a relatively high temperature area for citrus production. Under sufficient temperature and humidity conditions, it is very favorable for Xinhui Chenpi to form the quality characteristics of larger slices, thicker proper skins, larger oil packet grains, fuller oil chambers and strong fragrance. g3M Tea Net

At the same time, Xinhui belongs to the micro-hilly plains area, north of the Guifeng Mountain Range, south of the Gudou Mountain Range and Nguguling Mountain Range, surrounded by Yinzhou Lake and its plains, unique “wet basin” microclimate and the “oceanic monsoon” climate combination, the formation of significant dry and wet, hot and cold. g3M Tea Net

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▲Xinhui Chenpi has larger slices and full oil chamber. Under such a climate, the dried fruit peels are deeply affected by the climate with obvious rhythm during the aging process of up to three years, and the quality of aging also has distinctive characteristics, which is called “dry and wet alternate aging” and “cold and hot alternate aging”, which is not found in other places. “This is an aging condition that is not found elsewhere, and is also the key to the formation of quality after aging. g3M Tea Net

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3、Unique Technique

In the long production practice and exploration, Xinhui Chenpi has gradually established a unique set of “three times”, “three styles” and “three colors”, “three levels” and “three petals” grading standards (“three times” refers to the three harvesting periods, “three styles” refers to the three kinds of goods, “three colors” refers to three colors, “three levels” refers to three grades, and “three petals” refers to three open skins) and the scientific and technical processes of planting, harvesting, washing, opening skins, anti-skinning, tanning, and aging. g3M Tea Net

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▲Three petals open skin varieties, soil and water, climate, production technology, the four are indispensable. g3M Tea Network

It is the uniqueness and irreplaceability of these four specific factors that form the quality of Xinhui Chenpi’s authenticity, and become the key factor and real reason why Xinhui Chenpi is superior to other production areas. g3M Tea Net

Kindness will always be treated gently. ozGTea.com

What is kindness? Kindness is a person’s virtue, kindness is a person’s character. ozG Tea.com

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Being a person should be like a cup of good tea, ozGtea.com

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Getting along with people, sincere and honest. ozGtea.com

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Learn to be grateful, learn to give back. ozGtea.com

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The grace of a drop of water, must spring to return. ozGtea.com

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Kind people, not stupid, ozG tea net

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Being sincere, is a person’s nature; ozGtea.com

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The first thing you need to do is to get rid of all the bad things that are happening to you.

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Mentioned alone, many people’s first impression is “not fit in”. Zhuangzi said: “alone, is called unique; unique people, is called the most expensive”. tf5tea.net

Alone or not, do not fit in, in fact, from another point of view, is the behavior of the strong. Observe the people around you will find that the weaker the person, the more like and others together. On the contrary, those who are really strong in heart and strength, always like to be alone.

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Powerful people, have long given up ineffective socialization

The following scene is very common: run to a party, with a group of strangers, the whole smiling face to welcome each other, said polite; toast, sweeping microblogging, leave a phone number, but after three days can not remember who the other party is ……tf5tea.com

This low-quality socialization, called “ineffective socialization”, is more than appropriate. Those who always spend their energy on the “ineffective social” on the people, either to fill the inner loneliness, or in order to cover their own incompetence. tf5tea.net

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They seem to be friends all over the world, WeChat friends plus a few thousand, the heart bitter but can not find a person to talk about; they seem to have a wide range of contacts, know a variety of cattle big shot, need help but no one is willing to lend a helping hand. tf5tea.net

Zhou Guoping’s paragraph hit the nail on the head: “keen on socializing people often boast of many friends, in fact, they understand: the master of the social scene is definitely not friendship, but fashion, interest or boredom. True friendship is not noisy.” tf5tea.com

Powerful people really understand this truth, so long ago gave up “ineffective socialization”. tf5tea.net

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Many people are always afraid of “do not fit in”, thought “more friends, the road is better. So in order to fit in with the group and fit in with the group, non-stop to rush to one after another hustle and bustle. But the powerful people understand: the world is their own, and others have nothing to do with it. tf5tea.net

Instead of spending time and energy at the table to make some irrelevant “friends”, it is better to learn to get along with yourself. tf5tea.net

The world is very fair, how strong your ability, how wide the network will be. Instead of indulging in trashy socializing and fantasizing about others pulling their weight, you should learn to rely on your own strength to stand up. Mr. Lu Xun said, “Fierce beasts always walk alone, but bulls and sheep flock together.” Give up those useless socialization, improve yourself, your world can be bigger. tf5tea.net

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The only way to be alone is to live out your true self. Being alone is not unruly, and it’s not arrogance. But in the life of the people, can always maintain a sober, listen to the voice of the heart, follow the choice of the heart.

At the turn of the Song and Yuan Dynasties, the world was in turmoil. On this day, hot and dry, Xu Heng went out and was thirsty. It so happened that there was a pear tree by the roadside, pedestrians passing by went to pick pears, only Xu Heng did not move. Someone asked: “Why not pick pears to quench your thirst?” tf5tea.com

Xu Heng replied: “Not their own pear, how can you pick?” The man laughed and said, “It’s a chaotic time, so who cares whose pear it is.” Xu Heng said with a straight face, “The pear has no master, my heart alone has no master?” Alone is a posture, is the posture of some people walking in the chaotic world; tf5tea.com

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The first thing you need to do is to enjoy a season of blossoming flowers, wait for a season of pure snow, and not let the hypocrisy cover the mind. tf5tea.com

The only one is a kind of courage, do not follow the current, will not be people cloud; in the chaos of real life, to maintain their own heart, with loneliness and loneliness in the face of reality. They just know more clearly what they want. tf5tea.net

Solitary people, humble, elegant, and the world; but they have pride, have sharp, they are always clear about their own direction, has been forward. For us ordinary people, do not have to deliberately fit in, of course, do not have to specialize in order to appear to be extraordinary, and deliberately do not fit in.

The right thing to do is to be able to fit in with the group, can not fit in with the group is scattered, neither can follow the trend, nor pretentious. Being alone is just a form of expression in life, and has nothing to do with character. Instead of joining the group together with vulgarity, it is better to be alone and choose loneliness. tf5tea.net

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Deliberately fit into the group, not as good as alone

In fact, being rejected by the group, isolation, is only a kind of weak only survival worries, the weak can not face the risk of being rejected by the group. tf5tea.net

In the ancient hunter-gatherer era, our ancestors faced a harsh test of survival: nature in the serpents and beasts rampant, there is no group cooperation, individuals fighting alone, it is easy to die in the fangs of the beasts. tf5tea.com

So, the weaker, the more desperate to group together. This is the way of survival handed down from our ancestors. The same is true for people today, the weaker they are, the more they are afraid of being abandoned by the group. Lin Huiyin said that the real calmness is not to avoid the hustle and bustle of the car, but to cultivate a hedge and plant chrysanthemums in the heart. tf5tea.net

If you want to measure how strong a person’s heart is, see if he can be alone.

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With others, we are always in a social state; only in solitude, can truly discover themselves, recognize themselves, return to the true self, solitude is a person’s best value-added period. tf5tea.com

The height of a person’s life often depends on the quality of the solitude. If in the solitude, just listen to songs, play games, and do not do anything meaningful, then such a solitude is meaningless. tf5tea.com

The truly meaningful solitude should be to improve and enrich yourself through continuous learning, should be back to think seriously; look back at the road you have traveled, and seriously think about the lessons it has brought you.

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What really makes you strong is the accumulation and progress in thinking and learning alone. In the entertainment industry, Chen Daoming is a person who favors solitude, leisure time, he rarely participate in social functions, but often sit in front of the window where you can see the sky to play the piano.

Or think about his own experience of filming, quietly waving a brush to paint, such a life, he feels comfortable and quiet. In an interview with Yang Lan, Chen Daoming said, “Being alone is a virtue that can purify one’s heart.” tf5tea.com

Enriching yourself is far more meaningful than pleasing others. Do not care about the eyes of others, in the solitude to accumulate strength, constantly become stronger, in order to bloom their own glory. tf5tea.com